As the father of three children himself, Chip Ervin understands just how intimidating fatherhood can be for those who are expecting their first child. With so much advice out there, it is often difficult to figure out what you are meant to be doing and what will be right for you and your family. These simple pointers should help any new fathers get through those first years of fatherhood.
Mistakes Happen
The first thing you need to keep in mind is that mistakes can and will happen. You should always aim to be a great father, but striving for perfection in everything can also place undue stress on your shoulders that leads to more serious mistakes being made. Try to enjoy the whole process of being a father and be sure to learn from the mistakes that you do make and accept that they sometimes happen.
Be The Adult
As your child gets older and starts learning how to talk, you’re are occasionally going to find that stubbornness becomes an issue. Many experienced parents will be able to tell you stories of when “no” became their child’s favorite word. It is important that you maintain your air of authority and act as an adult in such situations. Don’t get into shouting matches with your children and make sure to discipline them appropriately.
Make Time For Others
Chip Ervin knows that many new parents find time management a struggle, and that’s okay. However, you should continue working on your other relationships when you have the chance, as this shows your child what it means to be a good friend.
Chip Ervin 